OPTIAM Help Section

I have problems logging in. Why?
Your profile is most likely waiting to be accepted because it is brand new or you edited it, please wait 24 hours and try again.

Why am I limited to 2 messages a day?
It helps to prevent the spammers from signing up just to send their spam.

Why can I not send a message to some profiles?
They blocked you.

How long will it take to get my picture approved?
1 - 2 days normally. Unless it is a national holiday or we go on a vacation :)

I have another question.
Please send us a message, but do not expect a quick response. This is a FREE dating site, if you want fast customer service sign up for a paid matchmaking service like CasualD.com.

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